Thursday 31 May 2012

My father used to say...


My father used to say these things to me and I used to think as a teenager yeah right whatever Dad!..
But as you get older and have kids yourself you find yourself saying the same things because you have found meaning in what he said to you.
'It only takes one smile in a room of people to fill it with warmth'
'Son you cannot fail if you never give in'
'Two little ducks are stuck in a bucket of milk both start to move there feet, one gives in and says to the other  it's too hard and sinks to it's death the other goes faster and churns the milk and gets out to live another day'
'Sometimes we all make mistakes, the best thing you can do son is learn from them'
'Never stop learning, never stop reading the moment you do is the day you give up'
'The only time you should rest is the time when you have four wooden walls and a top and bottom sunk in the soil or burnt to a crisp'
'Dont get mad when people dislike you turn any negative into a positive and learn why'
'Life is like a long journey often we dont know the destination but have we stop off points we wish to visit and things to learn from '
'You have a gift it's called life, now use it to better yourself and others and live in the present'
'Technology is your dream, your life help others understand what you do'
'A dream is always worth sharing however daft it may seem, someone will listen and understand it and work with you on it'
'One day you will have a son or a daughter and you will understand why we have rules and why sometimes they should be broken when you know something is right and you have to fight for'
'Don't you ever be afraid of anything or anyone, never fear it's all in your head'
'You hold a key all you need to do is find that door in which it fit' - He was meaning what path I was to take in my career and education.
'One day son you will own your own business I will be by your side smiling and say told you so'
'If you have a plan and you think it is about to fail, don't be scared to change the plan, that way you cannot fail, failure is not changing the plan'

'Before you try to change the world think about hard it has been for you to change yourself, the little lad to the man I see today, the changes you have made they were not easy now think about others in the same way help them to think differently'
Thank you for reading.

Miss you Dad your strength and wisdom, honour and duty will never be forgotten.